When you desire to go to the next level in life (work, relationship, growth), you don’t play around. You do what you need to do to make yourself better. That’s where I’m at now. I put my pride in a timeout. I put my shortcomings in a timeout. I’m doing things I’ve never done before or thought were options for me.
I was in a sticky situation at work this week. Navigating relationships with professionals on different levels within an agency can be tricky sometimes. I recognized that I needed ideas beyond my own to help me through the situation. I quickly enlisted the help of my mentor. In the past, I’ve rationalized that I have a master’s degree, so if I have a problem with an agency, I can find another job. In graduate school, one of my professors actually told me when a job stops being fun, then it’s time to move on. At the time, her advise saved me because I was absolutely miserable at my current job. After about 7 years of employment, it hadn’t occurred to me to search for a new job. That evening, I applied for a couple of jobs, and by the next month, I was employed at a different agency.
I went through a honeymoon phase of about a year with the new agency until I noticed some problems unfolding. After a few years, I sought employment elsewhere. I was out of that new agency in 6 months. My professor was right, when it’s no longer fun, look for another job. However, it may not be solving the problem. There may be evidence that supports the days of employees working at jobs for 20-40 years are gone. In American society today, depending on the occupation and geographic location, it’s normal to switch jobs every few years, especially in the social work field. I believed this to be my destiny.
What I’ve learned is that every agency has its own unique culture, politics, and you’re thinking it…PROBLEMS. However, another common denominator, if I’m moving through these different agencies every few years, is me. It just so happens the same theme does emerge. I get frustrated with people who have strong personalities and/or exhibit unchecked, bad behavior. I eventually give up. I believe I’ve lost some opportunities because of quitting too soon. Some people won’t blame me for quitting. I listened to an audio book this spring by John Acuff called Quitter. (When I figure out how to do it from my phone, I’ll paste the hyperlink to the book.) I was attracted to this book because I was convinced my destiny was to become self-employed because I was no longer feeling the fire at work. At some point, I may become self-employed, but the point I want to make here is the author gave me a different perspective on how I view my job. I gained a whole new appreciation for the opportunities that I could create for myself. I was promoted a few months later.
Imagine this: Today, I’m confronted with the same situation as I’ve had several times in years past. God is and has been telling me to deal with this issue. This is David and Goliath. This is a matter of me standing up for myself as the dynamic professional that I am. This is a matter of me not walking away from what God has in store for me. This is a matter of me making a change, so that I can be the change. And I will do it in a smart and strategic way, but not alone.
When you see a problem, enlist the help of people you trust to help you through it. Especially seek out people who know more than you and who have been there. Common themes in my posts are that it takes vulnerability and courage, but how badly do you want a different result? This is next level thinking.